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To Have Not Kindle Edition
Moving from one apartment to the next in 1970s San Francisco, Frances’s family always seemed a little bit short of just enough. This upbringing led Frances to wonder what it might be like to have more, a question that led her from the inner city to the halls of an Ivy League institution, to a dusty village in Central America.
Funny, smart, and insightful, To Have Not is a debut of a major new literary voice.
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateApril 12, 2010
- File size663 KB
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- ASIN : B003GDIA32
- Publisher : MP Publishing Limited (April 12, 2010)
- Publication date : April 12, 2010
- Language : English
- File size : 663 KB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Not Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Sticky notes : On Kindle Scribe
- Print length : 300 pages
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,859,796 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #1,060 in Parenting & Family Humor
- #3,095 in Parenting & Families Humor
- #8,639 in Children's Humorous Literature
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About the author
Writer and editor Frances Lefkowitz grew up poor in San Francisco in the 1970s, and went on to write about it in her memoir, TO HAVE NOT, named one of five "Best Memoirs of 2010″ by SheKnows.com. She's now at work on a second memoir, about learning to surf at age 36, breaking her neck doing it at age 44, and getting back up on the board a year later. Andrei Codrescu has said, "Frances Lefkowitz writes with grace, wistfulness, melancholy, and strength. The road to self-knowledge is twisted and arduous, but when it goes through a writer as good as Ms. Lefkowitz, the ride is a delight." She blogs about writing and publishing at PaperInMyShoe.com, and can also be found at FrancesLekowitz.net.
Frances has a growing reputation for her writing workshops, and has appeared with Cheryl Strayed and Malachy and Alfie McCourt at Omega Institute's Memoir Festival and The Sun magazine's Into the Fire writing weekends at Esalen Institute. She's also founded the grant-funded Community Memoir Project, teaching free memoir-writing workshops in public libraries, to help create a 'history of the rest of us.'
The former Senior Editor of Body+Soul magazine, aka Martha Stewart's Whole Living, Frances is the Book Reviewer for Good Housekeeping, and a freelance writer for Health, National Geographic Green Guide, Natural Health, Utne Reader, The Sun and other consumer and literary magazines. Her fiction, short stories, and flash fiction appear in Tin House, Glimmer Train, Fiction, Frederick Barthelme's New World Writing, and more. And lately she's been writing the nonfiction version of flash fiction; these micro-memoirs are in Superstition Review, Memoir Journal, Catamaran Literary Reader, and more. If she wanted to brag, she'd mention her Notable Mentions for the Pushcart Prize (twice) and Best American essays), a James Beard Award nomination in Food Writing, a Fellowship in Literature from the state of RI, an invited stay at the Hedgebrook Writers Colony and other awards and accolades.
But she'd rather tell you about her hobbies, which are surfing and speaking Spanish. Born and raised in San Francisco, she spent twenty-odd years on the East Coast, and is now settled back in Northern California.
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By Frances Lefkowitz
Intelligent. Well crafted. Honest. These are the words that come to mind when I think of Frances Lefkowitz's memoir, To Have Not. The book chronicles her years growing up in poverty in San Francisco, her experiences as a scholarship student at Brown University and her subsequent journey into adulthood. This is a tough story. It's not one of those this-is-what-happened-and-this-is-how-I-overcame-it-and-everything's-just-peachy-now stories. But neither is it one that wallows in pain. Lefkowitz was resourceful from an early age and was never inclined to act like a victim.
For example, when Lefkowitz was nine years old, her family was evicted because the building where they'd lived for several years was sold and the new owner wanted to move into the flat they'd been calling home. On moving day, her father was becoming increasingly impatient double parked outside, and her timid mother was flummoxed. "When Dad gets mad, Mom gets flustered," Lefkowitz wrote. "She moves faster, but she accomplishes less. To preserve some sort of peace, I've got to get boxes packed and down the stairs. 'Just shove that stuff in there, Mom,' I say, piling plates into a box." So, while still in grammar school, Lefkowitz was taking charge, doing what her mother was incapable of doing.
I moved to San Francisco as a young adult in the mid-1970s, when Lefkowitz was in middle school, and I didn't interact much with parents and children until I became a parent myself about a decade later. I recall in one rag-tag household I joined for a while, my roommates and I would cringe every evening just after dinner because the father of a family living nearby beat his children, and their screams permeated the evening fog. I had come to San Francisco, in part, to leave a painful childhood far behind, yet there right on the block was the painful present of another family. I hadn't a clue what to do. Lefkowitz wasn't beaten by her parents, but they were too immersed in their own struggles and pursuits to provide a stable home with food on the table, clean clothes, guidance--all of the things responsible parents should provide.
That Lefkowitz made the very most of what she had and became an accomplished and wise adult is a testament to her fighting and winning spirit. And now, whenever I visit San Francisco and pass a place where I once lived, I will recall some the experiences I had there, but I'll also be acutely aware of the children in need who lived just beyond my reach. And this, I believe, is a good thing. I highly recommend this book.
But it's the descriptions and the imagery that make this book so original and so moving. The author's word play and inventiveness make the story come alive. One image that comes to mind is just a little moment that takes place when the author is a very young girl. She's in the bathtub, eating a parsley sandwich that her mother has put on an aluminum pie tin, so it floats. You can imagine the soothing warm water, the fun of a floating sandwich, the harried mother in the next room, taking care of the other kids. The book is full of writing like this, economical yet lush, lingering long after you've finished reading.